America Sex Guide

The Inland Empire’s got this interesting mix—big enough to have options, but still chill enough to feel like you’re off the usual Southern California radar. When I meet someone here, I’m all about making the most of those quieter spots and finding the moments where the night feels just right.

I usually kick things off in Riverside at The Salted Pig—a cozy gastropub with a killer craft beer list and just enough buzz to get the conversation rolling without feeling rushed. It’s casual but polished, perfect for those early evening laughs and easy flirting.

If the vibe’s flowing, I like to take us to downtown Riverside’s Fox Performing Arts Center area. There’s a good mix of restaurants and lounges where you can keep things intimate but still enjoy some local culture. ProAbition Bar is a favorite—speakeasy style, dim lighting, and cocktails that taste as smooth as the night feels.

Dinner depends on the mood, but I’m a fan of Mario’s Place in Rancho Cucamonga for something authentic and inviting—Italian food done right, with cozy booths that let you lean in and keep the moment private. Or if we’re feeling something a bit more casual, The Public House in San Bernardino has great food and a laid-back vibe that works when you just want to keep it easy.

After dinner, there’s nothing like a slow drive up to Mount Rubidoux Park in Riverside. It’s a local favorite for sunset views and late-night city lights—a quiet place to park, turn on some music, and let the conversation get real without distractions.

If the night’s going well, I usually have a plan to settle into a suite at one of the nicer hotels—maybe the Mission Inn Hotel & Spa in Riverside. It’s historic, luxurious, and private—exactly the kind of place where you can stretch the night out and keep things comfortable.

The Inland Empire might not be LA or San Diego, but that’s what makes it work. It’s the easy pace, the hidden spots, and the chance to really connect without all the noise. When you’re with the right company, it’s all the heat you need.